Let me tell you a story. There was a family with two daughters…..Twinkle and Ruhani…Ruhani was the elder sister and twinkle was the younger. The family was a not so wealthy. The only thing they had was “respect” in the society.
The two daughters were taught values, cultures, mannerisms and what not.Both the daughters were brilliant in studies. They had sharp minds and thinking brains. As the time passed , both of them became better versions of themselves. Ruhani being an elder daughter, tried to do every thing to support her family. She used to take tutions even after coming from her college, help her mother in house chores and teach her sister every day. She left no stone unturned to support her family. Whereas Twinkle ,the younger daughter , was never a social person. She was individualistic , ambitious , and not so caring. She would only think about accomplishing her goals in life. She would not sacrifice anything for her goals. In a way she was too struggling for making her family’s life better, we can say that. Her approach was a bit different though. Naturally the more she got involved in achieving her dreams ,the distance arose between her and the family. Meanwhile Ruhani was not able to perform very well in her college.She wasn’t the same brilliant student now. She would wait for hours to get a public transport to save some of her father’s hard earned money .When she would come to home , she would teach small kids , and some of the days she would also help her mother in the kitchen. She used to take care of her old father and mother. Twinkle on the other hand will choose any transport medium ( even if it was costly) and save the time in waiting. The time saved was used in preparing an extra lesson. She would not even talk to anyone in the house since she was very tired to do so. Of course she had to wake up early in the morning to study . Soon Ruhani got married because she couldn’t find a job that his father liked. Ruhani was still happy with the decision and she got married. She gave birth to a beautiful daughter . She sacrificed her career even after being a mother to take care of her princess. All she did was to cook food for her husband and daughter , clean the home , iron the clothes , take care of the times when alarm would fail , make budgets in the house , plan expenditures, shop for her family, give moral education to her daughter, help her daughter in studies etc …..Twinkle on the other hand became a successful business woman.Her father wanted her to do a different job , so she fought with him for her rights and finally got accepted since ….fathers have no choice. Twinkle earned a huge salary .She used to come late from her office, would sleep right after that….no friends no foes… nothing …At the end of the month she would hand over her salary to her mother to take care of the expenses in the house. That was the only time when she used to talk to her family. Now you tell me …who became more successful??